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“Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.”

Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First—an essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either. The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.” An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirl magazine, which cheers, “Hallelujah!”

Product Details

  • Series: Kerner
  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: William Morrow Paperbacks; 1 Reprint edition (February 1, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0060538260
  • ISBN-13: 978-0060538262
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.6 x 8.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces

Customer Reviews


 on June 16, 2017
By B. Bartlett
Should be required reading for all men — would make for happier marriages/relationships.

Four Stars

 on September 30, 2017
By Brent Miller
Need to read more, but it teaches selfless loving.


2 people found this helpful.
 on July 21, 2015
By Iso
Hmmmm……my wife never thought much of this part of sex. That changed quickly. Now she can be a little embarrassing with her encouraging others to get the book for their partners. If you haven’t read this book then you CAN’T actually know what you are doing. That simple.

A little verbose and unnecessarily pseudo-intellectual. However

 on October 5, 2017
By TedOddity
A little verbose and unnecessarily pseudo-intellectual. However, at the same time, after wading through all of the filler, this book does provide a sufficient amount of information on how to do what is required. I would highly recommend this book with a little editing.

Five Stars

One person found this helpful.
 on April 19, 2017
By Sundy85
Great Book!

Great boom!

3 people found this helpful.
 on September 8, 2015
By Jessie Armas
Awesome book to read! There is a lot to take from this book. It gives you a different approach on cunnalingus and how to properly be good in that aspect. This book is worth Buying!

Four Stars

 on August 29, 2017
By derik
great read for all men.

Blissfully happy, very satisfied wife. <3

7 people found this helpful.
 on January 27, 2016
By Kelly H.
All I can really say is… THANK YOU! When my husband finally decided to read it (my not so subtle gift to him) our marriage became so much stronger. It used to be a lot of “giving” and only ever receiving when he was incredibly drunk. And now, even years later after he read it, we’re quite even.

Four thumbs up.

62 people found this helpful.
 on January 22, 2016
By Jake
Bought this as a gift for my wife (not the book silly). It’s helped me be smarter in the intimacy realm. I was never afraid to “go-down” and actually quite enjoy it, but was always worried I wasn’t doing things right. Well, this book confirmed that and has made me an expert. Wife gives it two thumbs up, all day, everyday. Go for it fellows!

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 on July 19, 2017
By Amazon Customer
Good Read