Ian Kerner | She Comes First (Episode 382)
She Comes First – A Gentleman’s Review
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“Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.”
Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First—an essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either. The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.” An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirl magazine, which cheers, “Hallelujah!”
- Series: Kerner
- Paperback: 240 pages
- Publisher: William Morrow Paperbacks; 1 Reprint edition (February 1, 2009)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0060538260
- ISBN-13: 978-0060538262
- Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.6 x 8.2 inches
- Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces
23 people found this helpful.
I thought it was a book about making papaya and banana smoothies and was shocked and disappointed to find it’s really not about that at all. Read it anyway thinking he’d get to the smoothie part eventually but he never did. I learned a few things along the way. My girlfriend gives it a gasping 5 stars.
Four thumbs up.
93 people found this helpful.
Bought this as a gift for my wife (not the book silly). It’s helped me be smarter in the intimacy realm. I was never afraid to “go-down” and actually quite enjoy it, but was always worried I wasn’t doing things right. Well, this book confirmed that and has made me an expert. Wife gives it two thumbs up, all day, everyday. Go for it fellows!
39 people found this helpful.
fun, informative and easy read. wife gives this book five stars a couple times a week 😉
Great for Beginners!
7 people found this helpful.
This is must read material for anyone who wants to learn how to perform oral sex on a woman. The only reason why I am giving 4 stars instead of 5 is because I didn’t really learn anything technique wise that I didn’t know before. I do not want to sound arrogant but I have researched and applied many techniques so I was more so hoping to learn something new rather than a how-to book. If you want to learn how to perform great oral or would like to take your technique from moderate to great this book is for you, but if you currently have no problems putting the O in Oral with your woman then you might only learn one or two new tricks. I would rate this as Great for beginners and Good as a refresher course for pros.
Read this book- you won’t regret it
5 people found this helpful.
A friend recommended this book when I started dating after divorce. It is a very good book. It is written by a man who prefaces what he has to share with some personal background information around his struggle with premature ejaculation and how that struggle led him to explore how to provide his partners with enough sexual stimulation to reach orgasm. If you are a man (or a lesbian)and read this you will undoubtedly learn a lot about how to pleasure a woman. If you are a straight woman you will learn a lot about how your body works and perhaps find it validating as it explains why so many women do not achieve orgasm during sex. The book does a great job of explaining how the female body works, what it takes to reach full arousal, and why so often, women do not get what they need during sex. There are anatomy lessons sprinkled in- I found some of that overwhelming. But overall this is a great book and worth a look.
A respectful, tasteful, practical manual.
4 people found this helpful.
A surprisingly good manual. Much more tasteful than others in its genre, and *much* more respectful in tone. The author isn’t an MRA-type jerk, which is refreshing. A good read for sex nerds and educators.
The techniques described in this book are spot-on. The …
3 people found this helpful.
The techniques described in this book are spot-on. The author gets a little over the top with his personal philosophy of relationships and it’s kind of mushy in a few areas but look past it. It’s very obvious that he has a personal opinion based on his own performance as to how effective traditional sex is. Again just ignore his personal opinions and focus on the techniques.
Excellent tips that WORK!
16 people found this helpful.
I’ve been dining at the Y for decades and thought I had learned all the techniques that lead my wife to amazing multiple orgasms. Wrong! No matter your skill level, this book will enhance your abilities to stimulate your girl in new, incredible ways. The author provides both the how and why of each suggestion along with drawings to ensure you understand important tips. For beginners, this book will guarantee your partner will be taken to new heights of pleasure that she could not have imagined were possible. For seasoned oral fans, it will take you skills to a higher level that will surprise and delight your partner.
Great guide for men who want their woman to want to please them
2 people found this helpful.
Psychologist recommended husband read. I wanted to give him a gold medal and sing an anthem the first time we were intimate after he’d read it. Certainly made me want to reciprocate. Pretty unbelievable it was so effective.
Will dramatically improve your skills as a lover
2 people found this helpful.
His writing style is crude, but the content is remarkably spot-on. My wife says my oral skills have improved 200% or more! She used to mostly tolerate my desire to please her orally, but now she comes multiple times from oral during our love-making.