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“Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.”
—Cosmopolitan

Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First—an essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either. The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.” An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirl magazine, which cheers, “Hallelujah!”

Product Details

  • Series: Kerner
  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: William Morrow Paperbacks; 1 Reprint edition (February 1, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0060538260
  • ISBN-13: 978-0060538262
  • Product Dimensions: 5.5 x 0.6 x 8.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces

Customer Reviews

Smooooooth

 on January 2, 2018
By mark leonard
I thought it was a book about making papaya and banana smoothies and was shocked and disappointed to find it’s really not about that at all. Read it anyway thinking he’d get to the smoothie part eventually but he never did. I learned a few things along the way. My girlfriend gives it a gasping 5 stars.

Four thumbs up.

 on January 22, 2016
By Jake
Bought this as a gift for my wife (not the book silly). It’s helped me be smarter in the intimacy realm. I was never afraid to “go-down” and actually quite enjoy it, but was always worried I wasn’t doing things right. Well, this book confirmed that and has made me an expert. Wife gives it two thumbs up, all day, everyday. Go for it fellows!

The techniques described in this book are spot-on. The …

 on November 29, 2017
By Corniceman
The techniques described in this book are spot-on. The author gets a little over the top with his personal philosophy of relationships and it’s kind of mushy in a few areas but look past it. It’s very obvious that he has a personal opinion based on his own performance as to how effective traditional sex is. Again just ignore his personal opinions and focus on the techniques.

Great overview of total body sex and how to re-imagine what you thought was ‘the right way’

 on April 9, 2018
By The Fair Critic
There are so many books written on sex that are trash – poorly written or repetitions. It is hard to distinguish between all of those books and the few, well thought out additions to the topic of sex.

Five Stars

 on May 15, 2016
By HeroFame
fun, informative and easy read. wife gives this book five stars a couple times a week 😉

I recommend it to every man or anyone who wants to …

 on April 21, 2018
By Willc2018
I bought this book thinking it won’t hurt to read but there is no way I believed for a second it would have the impact it has had for me and my wife. I read it with an open mind and now I have the absolute confidence that I can make my wife orgasm multiple times every time we have sex. EVERY TIME. I don’t believe half the reviews I read on amazon but please take this review seriously. I’ve dealt with pe for a long time and it has affected my marriage. But now my wife can’t wait until our next session and neither can I. I followed the tips in this book to a t and it has truly changed our relationship. I recommend it to every man or anyone who wants to get their female begging partner begging for more. No toys just the tongue and index finger!

Excellent tips that WORK!

 on May 3, 2017
By Steve
I’ve been dining at the Y for decades and thought I had learned all the techniques that lead my wife to amazing multiple orgasms. Wrong! No matter your skill level, this book will enhance your abilities to stimulate your girl in new, incredible ways. The author provides both the how and why of each suggestion along with drawings to ensure you understand important tips. For beginners, this book will guarantee your partner will be taken to new heights of pleasure that she could not have imagined were possible. For seasoned oral fans, it will take you skills to a higher level that will surprise and delight your partner.

Great for Beginners!

 on January 2, 2018
By Jonathon Spencer
This is must read material for anyone who wants to learn how to perform oral sex on a woman. The only reason why I am giving 4 stars instead of 5 is because I didn’t really learn anything technique wise that I didn’t know before. I do not want to sound arrogant but I have researched and applied many techniques so I was more so hoping to learn something new rather than a how-to book. If you want to learn how to perform great oral or would like to take your technique from moderate to great this book is for you, but if you currently have no problems putting the O in Oral with your woman then you might only learn one or two new tricks. I would rate this as Great for beginners and Good as a refresher course for pros.

A respectful, tasteful, practical manual.

 on January 15, 2018
By Molly Millions
A surprisingly good manual. Much more tasteful than others in its genre, and *much* more respectful in tone. The author isn’t an MRA-type jerk, which is refreshing. A good read for sex nerds and educators.

Will dramatically improve your skills as a lover

 on February 28, 2018
By Cliff Rees
His writing style is crude, but the content is remarkably spot-on. My wife says my oral skills have improved 200% or more! She used to mostly tolerate my desire to please her orally, but now she comes multiple times from oral during our love-making.