• A Wedding Ceremony for 2018: Write and Officiate the Perfect Ceremony (Like a Pro)
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  • How to Officiate at Your Friend’s Wedding
  • Wedding Ceremony – Simple Script – "The Officiant"
  • Wedding Officiant Andrew Wilson of Weddings by Andrew
  • Tradition Wedding Ceremony Order
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  • How the Wedding Officiant Can Work Well with the Wedding Photographer (5 Tips!)
  • Simple Guide to the Traditional Wedding Processional Order
  • A Lovely Ceremony – Sample Wedding Ceremony
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Last year, one in three American weddings were officiated by a friend or family member. With the officiating trend on the rise, novice officiants need a resource to guide them. In The Wedding Officiant's Guide, interfaith minister Lisa Francesca breaks down the entire officiating process, from becoming an ordained officiant and interviewing the couple to drafting and performing a moving ceremony. Written in an engaging and friendly tone, and featuring empowering advice, suggested readings, stories and lessons learned from new officiants, and practical tips from wedding planners, this inviting handbook will help new officiants write and deliver a wedding ceremony that fulfills marriage laws, delights guests, and honors the marrying couple.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 136 pages
  • Publisher: Chronicle Books (December 2, 2014)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1452119015
  • ISBN-13: 978-1452119014
  • Product Dimensions: 5.8 x 0.5 x 8.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces

Customer Reviews

Perfect book for new officiants

 on October 25, 2015
By Ginger
This book is EXACTLY what you need if you are about to officiate a wedding. I used this to help with my first wedding and it was invaluable. From the interview planning for the first talk with the couple, to managing the rehearsal, to the wedding day – I used it throughout the planning and execution of the wedding. The couple got what they wanted -the ceremony was very personal and meaningful and this book helped me prepare. I will continue to use it as I hopefully do more weddings.

Happy Bride, Happy Me!

 on June 29, 2017
By Auntie ME
Both the bride and I gleaned some useful info from this guide. Not a lot of really new ideas, but enough solid, helpful hints to make it very worthwhile. I found it easy to use as a resource….just wish a few areas had been expanded a bit. Overall, a good purchase….the wedding was a huge success!!

Essential wedding accessory

 on January 10, 2015
By Roz DeKett
Really a great guide for anyone wanting to officiate at a friend’s or relative’s wedding. Packed with guidance, information, anecdotes, and ideas in a readable format. If you’ve asked a friend to officiate at your wedding you may want to get them this book; or if you’re the officiant, it will help you prepare a wonderful wedding.

A Guide – to love

 on January 30, 2015
By Kyczy Hawk
Lisa has written a wonderful, full, informative book in which the spirit of a wedding is clearly transmitted. Yes, there is the WAY to perform a wedding, what considerations need be made; and she does this with kindness an compassion. But more than that, it is a book of love.

Great Book to plan your Ceremony and get your Officiant comfortable!

 on July 20, 2016
By H. Somerville
One of the better wedding ceremony books out there – we bought this to give to our friend who is going to officiate our wedding (his first time doing this), and I felt that it was very well written and will guide him and us to create a great ceremony – it made me want to be an officiant myself!

Very Helpful for last minute wedding

 on November 10, 2017
By Rick
My Sister asked me to officiate her wedding and I only had a month to prepare. Since I never done this before I needed help and quick. This guide was very helpful. From the beginning, the guide put me at ease and gave me all the information I needed to perform the wedding in clear steps. It gave me samples and ideas and I was able to put our own spin on the wedding that made it personable and special for my sister, her husband, and our family and friends. She was overjoyed on how I conducted the wedding, thanks to the guide.

Excellent resource

 on October 19, 2016
By Cleanlife
Excellent with all the details you need to be an officiant. I thought I thought of everything until I read this book. I am SO glad I got this prior to the event I’ll be officiating for.

Great book for newbies officiating a wedding

 on September 27, 2016
By C. E. Gregory
I just officiated at a wedding on the beach for my cousin. This was a last minute purchase when my cousin wasn’t sure what she wanted for a ceremony and I panicked. This is a nice book for any newbie to officiating a wedding and covers about anything that you need to know. It also covers traditions for many different religions, which is very nice.

This book made officiating my friend’s wedding so easy! The whole process is well laid out

 on June 8, 2016
By Jocelyn L. Stephen
This book made officiating my friend’s wedding so easy! The whole process is well laid out, from interviewing the couple to preparing on the wedding day. The book mentions that sometimes officiants cry. That was going to be me. The first time I tried to read the ceremony out loud, I couldn’t make it through the first line without welling up. After reading it several times, I got much better. On the wedding day, I only had to pause twice, and it wasn’t enough to make anyone feel uncomfortable. If you think you may cry, I recommend lots of practice. It made the whole experience a lot more fun and less embarrassing for me!

Pretty good

 on November 28, 2016
By Necia JG
It’s not a bad book, there are some really good parts. However, I would say this is more appropriate for a bride and groom than the officiant that I am!